"Puberty is a phase...15 years of rejection is a lifestyle."   - Stanford Blatch on Sex and the City

I was engaged about 1 1/2 years ago, but then he left me for the token big-breasted blonde.  Anyway, he was only my second boyfriend ever.  Since then, I've had at least 10.  I think he might have cursed me.  Is it possible that I may never get married?  Has the fact that I've already had my nuptial dreams crash around me a sign?  Do I even want to ever get married at all?  Is it really that important?  Obviously my ex-fiance wasn't "the one", so how do you know when you have found "the one"?  What if you're wrong?